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In the middle

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

And the week is going slow …  am waiting for the weekend.. as Rocks will be back and I will have someone to talk to besides the walls ,… he he he…

Running around with errands and stuff, did not enable me to spend some time with my birds and I was feeling sad..

Today I commit to go early and let them out and talk to them non stop and have them fly and whistle and run around as they like..

Sometimes, I wonder, how it would be if  I was so dependent to have someone let me out and take me out and have some fun.  I see this specially of the older generation who have come at a stage where they have to depend on their young ones to take them out or generally spend time with them. Its must be like living in a cage for them who once were the very epitome of independence and self sufficient individuals..

And when such a situation is there, it is very important to understand the responsibility of the younger generation who is so busy running after money and the next best job and really do not have that time to stop, think and work around the very mastheads which flagged us off. Its a continuous circle and its never too late to look back at the twilight zone which we inevitably will step into after sometime..

So well, when do you say : its enough and well I think I have enough..

What is enough for you ? Have you thought about it ?

We plan to retire early and we plan to do this and that but the next best opportunity always draws us in and we keep riding the tiger..

Well, this thought has sprung from the seed where I am thinking of saying its enough.. and leave it at that..

Now I dont want to think backwards.. but forwards… once its enough, how do we sustain ourselves materialistically and with the priorities that we have in our basket of life..

I dont know.. I am still thinking.. and maybe soon I hope to get an answer..

My dream right now : An open terrace cafe in a semi residential area where people can sip a cup of chai and snacks and have conversations.. some live music if needed by local folk musicians.. and some business from the local craft makers..  variety not in the food but in the events.. ( sigh)

Let me dream.. !!

Dreaming

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2008

Somehow I have been having some crazy dreams..

I dont know why but I dreamt of a hamster yesterday.. and while I was wondering what that hamster was doing in my pet’s cage, that bugger was busy chewing whatever.. and then the hamster turned into a moth.. and flew..

the only thing that was real was me. !!!

Crazy I tell you.

Some dream facts :

  • Did you know that you cannot dream if you are snoring.. ?
  • Dreams are indispensable.  A lack of dream activity can mean protein deficiency or a personality disorder. ( then I must be having excess protein)
  • Five minutes after the end of the dream, half the content is forgotten. After ten minutes, 90% is lost. ( How can I remember my dreams to the T even after days.. hmmm)
  • Men tend to dream more about other men, while women dream equally about men and women. (now that is debatable)
  • People who are giving up smoking have longer and more intense dreams. (Weird)

Dreams of Falling

As a teenager, I often had dreams of falling from a high ledge and would jump in my bed as if I fell and touched the ground..

Now interpretation from a website says this:

Falling dreams are another theme that is quite common in the world of dreams. Contrary to a popular myth, you will not actually die if you do not wake up before your hit the ground during a fall.

As with most common dream themes, falling is an indication of insecurities, instabilities, and anxieties. You are feeling overwhelmed and out of control in some situation in your waking life. This may reflect the way you feel in your relationship or in your work environment. You have lost your foothold and can not hang on or keep up with the hustle and bustle of daily life. When you fall, there is nothing that you can hold on to. You more or less are forced toward this downward motion without any control. This lost of control may parallel a waking situation in your life.

Falling dreams also often reflect a sense of failure or inferiority in some circumstance or situation. It may be the fear of failing in your job/school, loss of status, or failure in love. You feel shameful and lack a sense of pride. You are unable to keep up with the status quo or that you don’t measure up.

According to Freudian theory, dreams of falling indicate that you are contemplating giving into a sexual urge or impulse. You maybe lacking indiscretion.

Falling dreams typically occur during the first stage of sleep. Dreams in this stage are often accompanied by muscle spasms of the arms, legs, and the whole body. These sudden contractions, also known as myclonic jerks. Sometimes when we have these falling dreams, we feel our whole body jerk or twitch and we awaken from this jerk. It is thought that this jerking action is part of an arousal mechanism that allows the sleeper to awaken and become quickly alert and responsive to possible threats in the environment.

According to biblical interpretations, dreams about falling have a negative overtone and suggest that man is acting and walking according to his own way of thinking and not those of the Lord.

Till I dream my dreams again.. here another tune.. “A kiss to build a dream on by Louis Armstrong”

Sounds like Parineeta’s Blues Song ( picturised on Rekha and sung by Sunidhi C)  was copied from here..