This was something that I wanted to jot down when I was in Assam and I was sorting out old letters and throwing what I did not think was important.
I came across a shoebox of letters from my penpals and I re-read each of them and relived the days of my teenage years when there was no net and well only a phone and the magic of penfriendship. I still don’t remember how I got into that. I remember just picking up SUN magazine which used to be a rage in Shillong for teens and adults alike and started writing to strangers. And lo and behold !! I realized from the cozy room tucked way amidst rolling hills that there was a world which could be explored via pen and paper and my pocket money of 5 to 10 bucks would actually enable me to indulge in something worthwhile and exciting rather than spending it on friends who would inevitably be short of money and would keep asking me for some with no account.
There were some very eloquent friends with whom it was a pleasure sharing thoughts, hobbies, answering questions and asking the same over topics which only a teenage could wonder. And it was one pen friend who remains close to my heart and I read his letter over and over again just to relive. A wrote long letters and yeah I used to think that finally I met my match in writing long letters. I used to spend all of my pocket money on envelopes, stamps and stickers.
We had a very interesting relationship. A used to be full of advice and me as usual used to question him and would love to put him on a spot. It used to be nice just waiting for his reaction on his many epistles. Hahaah !! When I had exams, he encouraged me. When I was upset, he would write such interesting thoughts that I would be happy reading his letters. When I was angry, I fought with him and yeah he was generous enough to apologized. He never let me forget that he was 4 years older to me hahaha !!
Somehow for a girl tucked away in the remote hills, A did open up some of the world to her eyes. Though it did not make much sense to her, it still made her happy.
When I fell in love for the first time, A was there telling me all the right things to do and not to give in to impulse. A used to write me letters sharing his views on movies and his views on many topics and well I used to really look forward to his letters and yes this was the only person whose letter writing frequency was more than me.
Somehow I lost touch with him and it was not his fault. I deviated and meandered through my path of self discovery when I lost touch with many of my friends. It’s been more than a decade but as I was reading A’s 3 to 4 and sometimes more pages back to back letters and having this really nostalgic walk down memory lane where my whole world was to be just a carefree and a brat of a teenager.
Even today as I write this I remember him with so much fondness.
And guess what !! I pinged a similar name in LinkedIn with similar background blindly and today morning the email confirmed that it was him. Yeaaaa !!!
Man it was too good to connect with him and here I am overjoyed and happy to get this good old pal back.
We never met but somehow he was one of my best pals with whom I could be the really confused and brash teenager that I was.
I was thinking as I was driving to office that I should be really lucky if my blind ping would connect me to this soul friend and well I guess I did have lady luck smile down at me.
On a different Note :
Watched Road Side Romeo.
- Loved the movie. Ok I like Animation Movies.
- I loved the villain Chharlie and his “jokes” voiced by Javed Jaffrey. Too good.
- I loved his PJs.
- I really do not like Kareena so much.. Sigh.
- Found Romeow cute.. and the movie funny.
- Animation was smooth and a pleasure to watch.
- Highly recommended if you like animation movie.
- with this movie, it feels like animation has finally arrived into the bollywood scene.
- Loved the songs.. Choo le na is a good number.. feel like dancing to it.. reminds me of the Shymak Davar song..
Watched Golmaal Returns
- Do not bother. It was totally flat.
- It was like they were trying to do comedy too hard.
- Directors should stop making sequels.
- I am happy to stick with Golmaal.
- Not reccomended even if you have timepass free time.. nope nope nope..
It felt nice to sit by Cafe Coffee day on a Sunday morning at Fame watching the crowd go by and looking at all the fancy cars rolling in as we waited for our movies.
We found that the best time to watch movies cheap and without fuss.. of booking tickets is on a Sunday morning.. buhahahah !! Jai ho to Baruah Smartass idea.. Buhahaha !!!
If anyone is interested in Plays, Rangashankara has this theatre fest going on. I would love to catch some plays there.. given the time. I love plays.
Hamilton won the F1 championship… wethinks that there was some locha at the last moment.. not possible. But anyway Jai Ho.. to him
Shioks has reopened. I loved having my drinks at Moss.. Madhu is offering 15 percent discount on weekly lunches.. Do go. I am definitely going one of these days.. Location rocks.. and the lounge is cool. Calender this if you already have not visited.